Domestic Violence and He Left

Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
I was in a relationship for seven years and I really love this man. He left me cause there was a domestic violence incident, and now he blames me for everything.

He has been gone for 5 months now, and I am hurting really bad. I have tried to call him and he does not answer, sent letters and cards. What else can I do? I hear he spending his time in bars drinking now. How can I win this man back? Advice
If you are saying he hit you or hurt you then DO NOT GO BACK TO HIM. Yes you miss him, yes you're lonely! But there are MANY other great men out there who can soothe your soul, care for you, love you and cherish you. Men who are violent do NOT just get better. They if anything get worse. And you owe it to yourself and to any family you might bear to have a safe environment.

-- from Jenn
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