my boyfriends mom doesnt like me!!
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
ok Ive been gabriel's lady since nov.5.06...wich iz a year and 3 months already,well yeah anywayz his mom doesnt like me for nuthin.sumtimes i get so sad and depressed because everytime i go to his house his mom never says hi all she does to me is give me dat "maddogging" look. and when i sumtimes call their house phone she gives me this whatever voice u know, and i know 4 a fact she dont like me cuz ive heard from my boyfriend dat she talks alot of crap about me and dat she tried to brake me and him up. She keeps putting stuff in his head dat i might cheat on him or bad stuff like dat to him and now he tells me dat hes kinda believing dat..i was like "OH HELLLLZZZZ NA"! but what can i do dat lady keeps telling him bad stuff 'bout me. and well i dont get it either cuz i was pregnant by him and she was on mine and my mans side to keep da baby because im only 16 and well my mom didnt want me 2 have it but anywayz my mans mom was all happy dat i was pregnant but well at da end i ended up aborting it cuz of sum family problems and now it turns out dat she wants him to leave me already..I DONT GET IT.. can u plz tell me y she dont like me??
Seems she was all excited and happy when you were pregnant.
But when you aborted, she turned around on you and started badmouthing you. The only reason I can think of is that she wanted that baby and now she is sad because she doesn't have it.
Tell your boyfriend the reasons you and your mother decided to have an abortion and ask him to tell his mother. Maybe she just doesn't know why and would feel better knowing the answer.
If that doesn't work then get a small bunch of wild flowers at the florist and buy a small box of dark chocolates and give them to her. Make sure she knows that you would never cheat on your boyfriend.
Hopefully some of this might work and she will like you a little more and then more after that.
Good luck! George
-- from George
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