Should i really just give up now?!
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
Hey hi George, its me Devil the guy with the ex-girlfriend who studied in Swiss. First i would like to thank you for always being there giving me idea on what to do =)
She is not from Swiss actually, we're both not, we're both from Malaysia, a country which is situated in Asia, and we're both Chinese too..
I finally starting to see some improvements in us actually, like she will occasionally call me to ask me out, from nothing to something, this is really hard.. This is what keeps me fuel up for continuing my hard work.
But.. we had a bad argument this morning... In the end she said that i don't think we gonna have a chance to be together again, i hope we are still friends..
To be honest, Do friends French kiss and do friends have sex? Do friends hold hands when they go out for a movie or a dinner.. What kind of friends is there? Just 3 days ago we were still making out, and 3 days later we end up in such a big argument.
Should i really just give up now? or should i ask that should i really just give up so easily after listening to words that came out from an argument?
I'm so confused now...
Thank you for clarifying your nationalities.
It is too soon to decide what to do. Let things calm down after the argument before contacting her again. A few days will do. Then talk things over. If you want to continue the relationship then tell her.
As far as friends and sex: you know the expression "friends with benefits." Well that means you are just friends but you have sex for enjoyment. Maybe that is what she wants instead of a commitment.
Ask her that question and hopefully she will give you a clear answer.
Good luck! George
-- from George
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