Do you think I stll have a chance?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
Ok. So I met this girl through my friends. And she is incredible.I never felt more happy than when I was hanging with her. We never officially dated. But we had all the right things to be in a realtionship. Like holding hands and kissing and stuff. I'm honestly not like most guys. So its hard for me to ever listen to advice from ppl cause I don't think the same. Anyways it was only for like a week. But I started to really get interested and like her. And she even told her friends she likes me and took my picture with her to show me off. And like the very next day we had a talk and she said she didn't think she felt the same way for me that I felt for her. I told her I can't really just be friends with her cause it would be akward after what happened. But I can't get her out of my head. Atleast till I get a second chance to really screw things up myself. She agrees I'm a great guy and even said she will probably regret not dating me. But when I start to like a girl I put my gaurd up for any other girls. I'm not one to cheat by far!! But I don't feel like I move on without a second chance. I think she has to atleast have some interest in me with how things went. But now she is talkin to some other boy. Who is probably just another a$$hole guy and will hurt her. I really want to know.
What's a good way to get her falling for me/thinking about me?
Should I be just a friend for now?
If I'm wasting my time?
Thank you so much for ur time!! And I'm sorry for it being long. I just wanted you to understand where I'm comming from. With never officially dating
Your only hope is to be friends with her.
Since you were only together for a week, the odds are that she will not all of a sudden fall for you. She probably never fell for you to begin with. But,
that doesn't mean she cannot fall for you.
Give it your best shot... you are not wasting your time.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com