I'm Jealous and Argumentative
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I am a very jealous person, and I constantly want to argue with my boyfriend. How can i keep myself from being so jealous? and how do i keep from arguing with my boyfriend?
I have a whole how-to on jealousy -
it can EASILY destroy your relationship so don't just ignore it. You must take active steps to stamp it out before it takes over your life and destroys what you have with him.
As far as arguing goes, you have complete control over what you say. Yes it takes self restraint but just *close your mouth* and do not say it. Go outside and talk a walk. Sign up for an exercise class. SOMETHING is stressing you out a lot and you're taking it out on him. Either you find another way to release that stress or you soon won't have a boyfriend around to take it out on ...
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com