I want her back but she doesnt know what she wants
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
I am 19 years old and my girlfriend, 16 years old, recently broke up with me. she said that i wasnt really there to listen to her when she needed. she also said that i was too into her life. but the bottom line is, i love her. i have been with her for 2 years and i cant stand not being with her anymore. she has recently hooked up with a guy and she still wants to hang out with me and talk to me. she doesnt know i know that she hooked up with someone and she just says that she doesnt know if she wants to get back with me, even though she said she loves me and just cant forget about our 2 years together. I want her back so bad and i just started to play the hard to get game and am not talking to her as much. will this work? will she realize what she lost and come back to me? I was really the only guy in her life that cared the most about her and she knows that. What can i do to make her come back to me, to miss me and to be with me again? Please help me with good advice? Thanks!
Playing hard to get works sometimes so it's worth trying for a short time. But, if she doesn't respond within a week or two then you will need to call her.
What she wants is very unclear. She wants you to listen more but she also doesn't want you too much into her life. You need a better explanation from her.
Hopefully, this new guy will fizzle out and she will see that she misses you. Be her good friend and listen to what she has to say. That's one thing she asked of you, so it should be a safe thing to do. However, don't try to tell her what to do.
Make sure, when the time is right, to let her know you still love her. She won't know unless you tell her.
Good luck! George
-- from George
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