I still really want her back
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
I submitted a question a while ago entitled "Shes started seeing someone else and I want her back". It turned out that she stopped seeing the 18 year old guy. The strange thing is that after her sayin we shouldnt text n talk as much, she started phoning n texting me alot more. I met up with her for an houtr or so the other day. she texted me the other night sayin that she didnt know were she would be without my help and i felt touched that she said that. I want to show her that I can be there for her but also dont want to become a "good friend" which im worried I am becoming.
I am however worried that she is going to start seeing someone else soon. A guy she met with a few months ago but she said she didnt want to take it any further. The next week she was in a club, she said she saw him kissing a girl in an attempt to make her jealous and he was growling at her wee brother and his mates just because she was dancing with them.
I really want to make myslef seem more attractive to her but unsure how to. How can I make myself seem more attractive and make her more attracted to me and to stop me from becoming a "good friend"? Could you help me please?
As you know I am willing to fight for love because you have to fight for love.
To be more attractive means you have to be willing to improve yourself.
Not change yourself because you should be who you are. Little thing like dressing better, taking care of grooming (hair, nails, smell) can help. Also women like intelligent men so read the news and get good grades in school. Finally, be attentive to her by paying her compliments and such. Maybe ask her out for dinner.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com