want my ex back
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
ive wrote to u before about my guy having a gay friend.I dont know what to do.well we were together for 11 months.we broke up the 6th.cause he cant get past the stuff ive done to him in the past.and i was mean to him.but now he just treats me terrible.we live 2 hours away .and i told him i want a break for a month.cause all we do is fight.well i called him two days later and he says u wanted a break for a month.he is so mad at me.and he told me it was over.so i text him saying how i feel and he says right.he dont believe anything i say.ive lied to him so much he dont trust me or believe me.he told me that he loves me but i will never do him right.i told him will u ever call me again he said he dont know.and he supposed to send me my stuff in the mail but havent got it.hes done this before.he hasnt called me in two weeks.this is the longest he has gone without calling me.I called him 4 days ago.he was being niceobut i woke him up.he said to call him tomorrow.i never did.he told me he needs space to think.I text him the next day which was 3 days ago.saying i love you.but im giving u space.u can call me if u want too.no respond and no call.I love him our one year anniversary is next wednesday.and he is on myspace.when we werent together he wasnt on there for two months.now that we broke up he is on there everyday.and he has it on private where i cant see what he is doing.he done this before when we broke up.i think he is talking and trying to find a new girl.he says he isnt seeing or talking to anyone he only wants me.he said some hurtful things.like he dont want to love me anymore and he dont care what i do.he says one minute he wants me then the next its no.we broke up about 20 times before.he always came back.so do you think he will or is he done with me?.he says he has all he can take and hes done i wont change.but i have he just dont see it.and he loves me he says he always will.what do i do im lost without him.
Since you have broken up so many times, there is a good chance that you will make up again.
Think of the ways you have changed, then the next time you talk with him give him a list to think about.
Ask him to celebrate your one year anniversay "as friends." This may be a chance to get back together.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com