No idea what she wants

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Hey George its me again, The guy with the Swiss girlfriend(the author of 'Still going no where'), thx for remembering me, I'm really amaze u have such good memories with so many thousands of people posting their need of help here. From now on, i refer to myself as Devil okay? would make it easier to talk like this.

To be honest, now her attitude is worse than last time George..

No matter how much effort i take, she is like taking it for granted, i couldnt see her appreciating anything there. As for most man, we get our source of power from the desire of our love ones, when we feel like someone needs us, we become more willing to give, and more committed, i couldnt feel anything like that.

Like that day, she ask me to go home after we argued, said she didnt wanted to talk but she asked me to text her when i reach home, but i didnt. Then in the next morning, she called me. She is like asking me to stop putting hope on her because she wanted to be single, but when she sees me, she kissed me on my lips.

U suggest i continue doing what i'm doing, do u mean that i should continue being intimate and always be there for her no matter what happen?

I've got no idea of what to do and what she wants now... Advice
I missed the fact that she is Swiss.

That may make some difference. Perhaps Swiss women would continue to kiss you on the lips where an American woman might not.

What is missing in all of this is communication between you two. Since you have questions about what to do and what she wants, have a long, gentle, loving conversation and see what comes of it.

Being intimate is something else to discuss--knowing that you run the risk of shutting it off. My advice is to pull back from the huge committment of being there no matter what seems a little overboard given the circumstances.

What I was suggesting was to let things float along until things improve or until they die.

Good luck! George

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