Wondering About My Choices...
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
Okay, well, I had the kind of guy every woman would want. He always complimented me, supported me, and loved me so much more than I could ever imagine. Only, I just never felt the same spark he did. We dated for 8 months and, yes, we had our ups and downs, but we always seemed to make it through. I am the type of person to play "hard to get" and I seemed to feel like he'll never leave me and I don't truly love him so "why worry?" Yes, you could call this taking advantage of him but I didn't see it. Until two weeks ago when he says that he doesn't feel the same way about me as he used to. Wow, that was my ultimate wake-up call...Now, I realize how I treated him and how good I really had it. He wants to come over this weekend so we can hang out as "friends". Only, I don't want to (maybe) date him again if I don't truly love him. Because in those 8 months, I felt terrible every time I told him that I loved him...What should I do in this situation? I don't want to live a lie again. Thanks!
You have two ways to go.
One is to stop seeing him. The other is to see him as friends.
Since you are worrying that the relationship may go back what you had before,
my advice is to analyze the weekend and see what happened.
Make your decision based on what happened.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com