mistake once..shame on you, mistake 2 shame on me

Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Male
My question is that i'm seeing this lady. She is a very loving,kind and generous woman. She has had many "casual" partners. Now i know that is in the past but what is hard is that she is friends with most her sex partners. She is also co-workers. i told her that i could handle it on a professional level but he has no reason to be calling or wanting to have lunch with her. Maybe other people can get over this but it has been a real pot hole for me to get out of. Am I over reacting? she says it was meaningless for her and i have no worries. I have also had exes whom i let have friendships with their sex partners or exes and i have been burned everytime. What kind of advice can you give me?

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It's a crapshoot.

There's a good chance she will burn you as you have been burned in the past.
You didn't mention how long you have been seeing her, that could make a difference.

You really have nothing much to lose. Give her a chance and see where it leads. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.

Good luck! George

-- from George
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