Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
ive been tyalking to my cousins best friend and he likes me ...but weve nver met so were going to go out some where but just to meet people and to get to know him but im so nervious .......waat if he doesnt like me?wat if i cant make it?wawt if i dont like him?wat if i freeze?please answer me
Here's on thing about life:
You can be happy, perky, optimistic and have fun. Or, you can be worried, pessimistic, down and not have much fun.
Keep your eye on the ball. You are a good person and people are going to like you (unless you are a gloompuss.) So one important thing to do is to smile, smile, smile.
Smiling shows you are confident, that you are willing to have fun, and that you are fun to be with.
Before you get together, think of a few topics to talk about... your pet, your family, school, music, whatever. Then if conversation begins to drag, just say "I've got to tell you about this..." and tell them how your dog jumped up and took the chicken off the table.
You will get along fine... and if you don't, guess what? You have a whole lifetime ahead of you to enjoy. And you will.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com