Is it worth it?
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I have been dating my ex for 4 years. We have broken up three times after the first two years. Each time he came back right away around a week or two later. This last time we decided to see other people to see what else is out there and if we were really meant for each other. He did and i didnt. He came back to me saying there is no other girl like me. We got back together and have fought a few times since then. He now tells me that he doesnt see him being happy with me in the future. He says that we are two different people and that its nothing personal, but i have changed since i went away from school. Do you think that he is going to come back to me or do you think this time he is serious? What should i do for now? give him his space? To make sure he doesnt do this again, how long does this break need to be?...Thank you so much for your help!
You will just have to play it by ear.
There are no good answers for your questions. There are two many variables that could influence his behavior and that are influencing your behavior.
Give him his space and see what happens.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com