dont get it

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
Me and my significant other have been together on and off for the past year and a half. Last year we were together for most of the year and then when i thought i might have to transfer she told me she lost feelings. She told me once there is doubt she cant keep it out. So we fought and didnt really talk till the about 5 months ago. We started dating agian and everything was great. She told me what an idiot she was and how she made such a big mistake. Everything was good and right before we went home for christmas break she seemed alittle distant. Over the first week of break we didnt talk that much so i asked her what was up. She then told me she lost feelings for me agian and has not talked to me since. How do these feelings keep disapearing/ what am i doing wrong? Advice
You are probably not doing anything wrong.

It's just that her feelings for you are not very strong. There is no way to explain that, just feelings.

If you want to, keep after her and maybe she will come back. But then she will probably leave again.

Good luck! George

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