Does he want to get back together?
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
Thank you for taking the time to help with my situation. I was dating my Bf for almost 4 years. Right in the beginning I went away from college but we made things work. He broke up with me because we started fighting two years after we were dating. He randomly hooked up with another girl and regretted it. We got back together and then 6 months later we broke up again. This time the break up lasted a week and the first time he saw me we started talking again. From that point until around 2 1/2 months ago we were great. Then he told me that he is 22 and only dated me and was getting scared. We decided to see other ppl to see if we were meant to be...he did and after a month of not being together, and two weeks of him seeing another girl he came back to me. He told me no one will ever be me. Since then, we had a few big fights and he has told me again that he doesnt know if he sees me in his future. I wrote him an email telling him that i basically give up and can not be this emotionally insecure anymore. I still do see him around, but i cant help but be jealous. It has been a few days and we havent contacted each other. Is it worth me trying to still get him back? How long should I wait this out? Is he even worth waiting for?
Sorry you are in this situation.
You and your ex need to do some serious talking so you can figure out how to answer the questions you raise. Only then will you know whether you want to try to get him back and how long to wait. You will have to decide if he is worth waiting for.
I advice waiting a week or so to see what happens. During that time you will be able to ponder the questions you have.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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