She has started seeing someone else but i dont want to give up
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
I submited a question the other day about what i should do about trying to win my ex back who is starting to see an 18 year old (she is 24 in 4 months). we stopped seeing each other 6 months ago but since then and up until now i have helped her finacially as she was going through a really rough time and I am also helping pay for half of her car (something we agreed on 2 months ago which i sawe as a good sign).
you said to keep doing what im doing and that she will maybe realise she loves me again and to ask if we can still meet up n do stuff as friends, but im worried that shell say no and that she thinks we should maintain limited contact.
I love the girl like no other and do not want to give up as you said you think she will get fed up with the guy soon enough. do you really think that is the case?
I told her how i felt and how ashamed i was at the way i acted throughout her abortion. she said we are still good friends and nothing else and that she cannot forgive for what happened but i know i can show her im not like that n that it was a reaction not in my character (i told her this and she said that she knows i wouldnt ever do it again) but she said we cannot keep up the same level of contact as it wont be fair on this guy.
you have to fight for love and im prepared to fight as i beleive she is the one for me
please any further help would be great.
You asked me pretty much the same question as you did yesterday.
My opinion hasn't changed even with the additional details you gave.
Your questions are very welcome but please limit them to once a week. Thanks :)
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com