best friends who kissed and more
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I have been friends with this guy since high school. He has met my parents and I have met his. He would always come over to my house to hang out, until he joined the navy, and even still, he would come over to hang out. I have feelings for him and I have told him, and he said that he just wanted to be friends for a while. Recently, I went to his house and we watched a movie, but half way through it, he told me to lean next to him to get more comfortable and I did. About ten minutes later, we had our first kiss. It was nice, but as things progressed, he led me up to his bedroom, and we proceeded to make out, then we became more intamate (orally) , but not to the point of having sex, I asked him what we had become, and he said that he didnt want a long term relationship, so I said ok that we could just be like we are. He was fine with it, but I was wondering that if he kissed me and we became intamate orally, does he have feelings for me? or am I over reacting, and how do I handle this? I mean he went down on me,and I him. but how do I find out if he wants more of our relationship?
The only way to find out is to go on with the relationship and see where it leads. That and talking with him.
It seems to be that he just wants "friends with benefits."
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com