drinking and bowling
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
my girlfriend went to her friends house and they had a girls night and i asked her if there would be drinking there because i dont want her to drink i dont like it period. and she said there was gonna be no drinking and everything will be fine. well the next morning i asked her to tell me the truth what happend because i had a feeling that she did drink and she said she did drink and it was a mistake but everytime i think about it i get mad and i am disapointed in her and i dotn know what to do please help!!!
our 2nd month anniversary is in a couple of days and i was expecting just me and her to hang out but she told me that we are gonna go bowling with her bestfriend and my bestfriend and i would rather just use hang out what would she want to be wiht other people on our anniversary??? please help!!
#1 You have every right to be mad and disappointed in her. Keep telling her how you feel. That's about the best you can do unless you want to dump her.
#2 If she wants to go out bowling, you should do that. Maybe suggest you go bowling alone but then she might be unhappy because that's not what she wanted.
You need to discuss it with her and come to a mutual agreement. Neither of you is right or wrong so use it as a learning experience about how to solve problems together.
Good luck! George
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-- from George
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