he is going back to his country, what to do?Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
Dear Romance Class,
I have a problem with which I'm very mixed up and sad..
I am currently studying in China, and I met this Korean boy here. At the time I was just going through a break-up with my boyfriend, and we became really good friends. We do a lot together. He also has a girlfriend in Korea.
But since 2 months, we've fallen in love with eachother. I really love him so much, and what we have is good. However, he is going back to Korea within 20 days. Back to his girlfriend, which means that I will never see him again. I feel so heartbroken when I think of this every time already, and it's on my mind more and more often. what about when he really goes back to Korea in less than a month?
I can't stand the thought of not being with him. On the other hand, I am also so glad I got to spend all this time with him and glad that I got the chance to love him.
Does anyone have advice for me?
Two months is a very short time for a true romance to blossom. Love is a long-term relationship that has to weather the ups and downs of life.
What this means for you is that you will hurt very bad at first, but then the pain will slowly go away. You will always remember him, but you will also find another love to be happy with.
Feel happy for him since he is returning to his homeland and family.
And, your day will come when you are happy for yourself.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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