Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
hello...so im still talkin to the same guy and your advice before was to just wait it out..i didnt talk to him for a few weeks and it was just to long..i then messaged him i know i shouldnt of said what i did untili knew how it was going to be not that he didnt deserve it i just thought it was going to be different..then talked to him and just said i shouldnt of said about us bein together when we cant and arnt and he got all mad and was just liek why i guess your the perfect ecxample of someone who just gives up and doesnt no what love is about and i said i wouldnt give up if it wasnt liek we were saying all thesse things to eachother then c ya later who knows when the next time im gonna talk to you is he then said i could talk to him whenever i want to and hes gonna get a pager so i can page him if i need to..i called him talked to him the next day about things and said for the new year i wanted him and he told me to try harder he could have saw me on the new year because he was in town. i called him that morinng and he never picked up so i havent called since( he is staying at his dads for a bit) my cell phone also just ran out of minutes so i dont no if hes called me..how am i suppose to try harder and doyou think i even should ? i dont want to be like annoying calling him all the time should i just call him more?(im also not very good on the phone and dont liek using the phone unless i am making a plan so dont no what to talk about )..i feel bad cause all i ever do is give up..but it feel its just out of my hands all the time because i have no way of seeing him. im still stuck and dont no what to do..i keep trying to leave it but deep down i dont want to and he wont let me.but then i do want to because its liek im dedicated to soemonei cant see and i really feel he isnt trying to much so dont no what to do
You won't be able to figure this out until both of you can use your cell phones again.
Make that a priority.
Then call him at his home and tell him that your phone is working again and you would like to communicate with him.
Make sure he continues to answer your calls, otherwise you will have to let him go.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com