should i try or not?

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theres a girl i realli like and its the onli im realli interested in. at first i was beginnin to gain her friendship but i messed it up w/o knwing. i told her via letter tht i like her but i wish 2 b closer friends onli. after tht she didnt tlk 2 me or anythng, i figure i did sumthng wrong. when i ask 2 tlk 2 clear tht up, she tells me tht she doesnt wanna tlk 2 me cuaz it might make me like her more. i said no i just wanna b closer friends, but respect her decision. 2 friend tlk 2 her and told me tht she thinks im obess w/ her cuaz i followed her around classes. thts not true, i just happen 2 b around her and i took the chance 2 tlk 2 her and company her 2 class, but i understood y she would think tht. now, i still like her alot, i mean she realli close to the kind of girl i want 2 b with, but im not sure if i should try the freindship again or not. i dont wanna waste time on sum1 who wont doesnt giv a damn, but i also dont wanna giv up w/o realli tryin Advice
It seems you have given her two chances and she is not interest.

So, as you said "don't waste time" on her.

There are plenty of fish in the sea.

Good luck! George

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