Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
My fiance and i have been together for 10 years now and we have 2 kids together. Over the past few months it seems that everything has changed. It seems that the spark in gone and we do argue a little to often. I find myself getting upset with her quite often as well. I have tried to break up with her but then when she starts to cry i give in and decide not to do it.
She seems to get upset with me when i go out with friends which is not to often. She will tell me to go and when i get back she will be upset and angry with me. She always tells me she misses me even when i go to the store which is 2 minutes away. I am to the point where i am telling her things like i love her just to save an argument. I am truly not happy and i really do want to end it but i am scared when i do it that as soon as i see the tears i am gonna cave and not do it. Is there anyway i can be strong enough to do it?
Why give up on a 10 year relationship with two kids without trying to save the situation?
Look in the yellow pages and find a counselor to help you work your way through this. The outcome may be an agreement to separate or it may be an agreement to keep trying. At least you will have the satisfaction that you made a strong effort to work it out.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com