How do I kiss her for the first time?

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
I've been going out with my girlfriend for about three months and we've done all of the classic holding hands, talking about how much we love each other etc. but I want to kiss her so much and she does too. (My sources from friends) I can never get her alone with me cause me and her are like the only couple in our grade (we're both 13) and everyone's waiting for it to happen. So we can't do anything at school cause everyone's watching and we can't do anything at parties cause eveyrone's watching. I don't want to ask her about it or it will make it akward. What should I do? Advice
You are making a mountain out of a molehill.

You should be hugging hello and goodbye regularly already. If you aren't then start doing so now. Tell her you are going to start doing it.

Then when you hug, after a short while start giving her a peck on the cheek as part of the hugging. After doing this a while, it will be time to give her a regular kiss... do this at a party and don't worry about everyone watching. (You could even sneek outdoors if you have to.)

After this, you could try kissing at school... although some schools have rules against this.

Take it step-by-step and things will work out fine. Don't forget, you could invite her to a movie and kiss her there.

Good luck! George

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