What should i do.
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
hi. i hav a problem. i kno i wrote here b4. ok. i liked this boy since the summer of my 9th grade year ( which was a year and eight months ago). we went out for only three months last summer (which was long distance) when he broke up with me ive never been the same ever since. i lost interest in everything i loved. i wouldnd hang wit anyfriends and etc. I used to cry almost every night( i do now sometimes occationally) It was about five months ago he called my phone tellin me not to call anymore and that im a bitch, ho, slut, and watever u can think of. and he said that he NEVER LIKED ME and that he was going wit me out of pity. so that broke my heart big time. so i never called him ever since. about three months later he called my phone sayin u never miss nothin untl its gone, and that he wish he could go bac to those days. and he apologized to me. So i told him dont b runnin no games on me and that he was better off not callin my phone. he got mad callin me a bunch of names and said that i was old news, he already got a girlfriend, and he was jus apologizing. was i wrong for not accepting his apology. i miss him very much. the only thing that gets my mind of him is gettin high and drunk. i also currently got a boyfriend, but i always think about my ex when im with him. thz for reading.
You should call him and tell him you are sorry you didn't accept his apology.
He put himself on the line by apologizing and then got angry when you didn't accept it. Both of you will feel better by having this understanding.
And don't believe what he said that he never liked you and was only going with you out of pity. That is not true, he only said it because he was upset about something. It is too bad that you never found out why he called you all those names.
You are still thinking about him because there are so many loose ends to your relationship and because he broke it off so meanly. Find something else to think about when your mind goes to thinking about him. Think about the summer and what nice things you might do. Maybe you could plan a vacation and start saving for it. Or think of nice things you could do for your boyfriend. Think of the present and future but not of the past. You only get sad by looking back at that boy.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com