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I was dating this guy for over two years our relationship was always falling apart and we were always fighting but he was one of those guys who always has a place in your heart and who women always run back to. We constantly talked about breaking up but i always begged him to stay promising that i would change. Then towards the end of that summer I met this guy at work and pursued a relationship with him and he treated me like a princess. Little did i realize that i was falling in love again yet as i kept seeing this guy from work all of my problems with my original boyfriend disappeared. I have tried to break up with my first boyfriend but i always chicken out and fall back into his arms. Not only am I lying to them but i have lied to my friends and family about who i am dating. I could never tell them that i was cheating it would break them apart. its a mistake i think i want to be with the guy i met at work but i can't shake the other one after all the pain i went through because of him what should i do? Advice
You are cheating on two guys and lying to your family and friends.

While it is hard to imagine doing it, my advice is to confess to both of the guys and break up with both of them. Then start fresh and find someone new to date.

Oh what a tangled web we weave, When first we practice to deceive!

Good luck! George

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