What to do?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
My boyfriend and I have been on & off for the last 3 years. We have broken up for months in between and seen other people but recently we got back together. I am not very trusting with him over the fact on how many times he cheated. One friday nite he i.med me online saying "I hate when your with your friends .. I just wanna break up with you when your with them.. thats how i feel.. well i'll see you at the game tonight." I was pretty upset with the letter but went to the game and he came over said hi to me and went back to sit with all of his friends. The rest of that nite was horrible. I ended up going to the movies with a few friends so I tryed calling my boyfriend but he didn't answer. I started to text him and he didn't answer either. He was ignoren all of my calls and texts. Finally he texted me back saying " Where are you.. are we going out." I replied saying "I thought we were.. and why are you ignoren my calls". He said "I don't wanna talk to you right now thats why." I tryed calling him after that but he didn't answer. About 1 in the morning i got a text from him saying are you up? and where were you today.. I told him and asked where he was .. I could tell he was lien by the way he said it .. We started to argue and he said I had no trust in him. The next day he texted me saying "where are you & what are you doing later." I told him i was at Fridays eating & i wasn't sure .. what are you doing tonight. He didn't answer me again so I said "oh is this ignore game again" He still did not answer so I went to the movies with some friends. During the movie I got a text from him saying "Are you my girlfriend" I said "Well i thought i was?" He replied ok well i'm going to hang out with my ex girlfriend and a few other friends. I then told him forget it . were done then he texted back saying "wow you have no trust for me." After that i was very upset so i decided to go home as i was going home .. I had to pass his ex girlfriends house and there I saw him, his ex girlfriend, his friend & her friend and they were all over eachother! I was shocked & couldn't stop crying..I really miss him though and I don't know what to do if he asks for another chance? I"m so confussed. Please help me . ) thank you
It is difficult for a relationship to remain steady when the partners don't trust each other.
That should be your first priority-- rebuilding your trust.
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Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com