What' up with this?
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
Hey guys its me! Well i'm in a predickament. It seems that none of the girls at my school like me. I know this because 3 girls I asked to the movies said no (i gave each asking a three week period). I have no idea whats up, my friends say i have the looks and the charm, but they say no. I have a rep. at school of being the strongest kid there, but that can't be it. At this point about 85-90% of my friends are dating, so i've just given up. Is it because it sit with the dorky kids, whats wroong with being a nice person. I tell you, some people are weird thinking that your points with girls depend on who you hang out with. Last thing, i remember one night i was at my friends house and he was talking to the girl i liked, he told her and said "ew, i would never be seen anywhere with him." So, should i just give up, or give it a last chance.
Thanks a bunch, you guys are awsome.
Don't ever give up.
There are many girls out there who cry themselves to sleep at night because nobody ever asks them out. Think how happy you could make one of them.
If you are friends with any girls, ask them for advice and let them know you feel bad because you can't get a date. They will have ideas about specific girls you might ask.
Meanwhile work on yourself. Try to get good grades, dress well, groom yourself well, be sociable, be a good listener, laugh a lot. Remember you are not changing yourself for someone else, you are changing yourself because you are important and you should take care of YOU.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com