Trying to Compromise
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
We me and my boy friend and very much in love and have shared lots of intimant time together. We have realized that I have a much stronger urge for sex than he does. He is content with once a day and I would prefer 2+ times a day. So I am trying to compremise and I beleive if our 'intiment time' was a little longer, as in more foreplay more romance and really make it worth it I think that would satisfy me. How can i introduce this to him without hurting his ego? And what kind of things can i do to spice it up a bit?
Start by figuring out (by yourself) the best time for this once a day intimacy to take place. My suggestion would be sometime in the evening.
Evening allows you to have a glass of wine to relax with, scented candles to provide the eyes and nose with something to enjoy, maybe some chocolates for energy and taste, and romantic music. Of course you should dress sexily.
Start off with backrubs, neckrubs, or footrubs to loosen you up. Then some slow dancing, then back into bed for the main event.
Sometimes you could share a shower or bubble bath and a sexy video. Make sure you know his most sensitive parts of his body and he should know yours... beyond the obvious, of course.
You don't have to include all of the above every time, keep things interesting by varying the themes.
His ego won't be hurt if you tell him you are doing this to make his enjoyment better.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com