What do I do about my husband?
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
My husband and I have known each other for three years now and we have been married for one year. We have a beautiful one year old daughter as well. My problem is that my husband doesn`t put my daughter or I on his top priorities list and I am so fed up. 2-4 times a day he is on the phone with his guy friend and to me it does not look right. When I tell him to come off the phone and spend tim e with his daughter and I he is on the phone with this friend who he has known from his country. His friend get news about my husband before me and I am his so called wife. I have spoken to my husband about this many time nicely and it`s like he isn`t paying attention to me. I have become so depressed because my husband refuses to put me first. What should I do? I am at the end of my rope.
When you wrote in last year, you were having the same trouble with him. You wanted to leave and go to a shelter.
You may as well face facts and realize that he will probably never put you first. Many men are very selfish and mostly think of themselves. They will lose themselves in sports, hobbies, or drink. Or hanging out with friends.
If you really can't stand it then divorce him. Otherwise continue to remind him of his family obligations. Think of things to do as a family. Try to mend fences with your families because that will bring joy to your life and to your daughter as well.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com