My boyfriend hasn't called in a month, he's been caught with another girl

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
hey my boyfriend still hasn't called me and now it has been 4 weeks. Last night was open house for our school and i didnt see him there but my one friend said that she saw him and she also said that he was making out with another girl. that hurt me really bad.

Do you think that i should break up with him or try to talk things out with him? DO you think he still loves me? Advice
It sounds like he has been very cruel to you and in essence abandoned you without even being decent enough to tell you that he was breaking up. He sounds like someone that does not deserve you at all!! You deserve someone who cares for you and who will treat you with respect. This guy obviously is simply not old enough to date yet, if he can act like that.

I wouldn't even give him the benefit of a phone call. His behavior deserves to be slammed down. I would send him an email or a real letter and let him know in no uncertain terms that you know he has cheated on you, you know he has abandoned you, and that these are incredibly immature things for a boyfriend to have done. That you want no part of him and that you are much happier now that he is out of your life.

Hopefully someone will do this to him in the near future, so he realizes just how slimy a thing it is. And I am sure you will find a new boyfriend soon, one who is great to you - and your old boyfriend will be jealous of what he lost!

-- from Jenn
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