what the hell now?..... so complicated
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
i have an awkward situation , lol. my best friend well ex boyfriend broke up a somewhat long while ago going on a month and were cool again. im glad bt was i wrong for breaking up because he didnt fit all that i wanted , i know perfection is impossible but he didnt suit the basics that i require? yes ive gne out with a few others and ppl outside of what i feel is my type and still single by choice. i wanted to know if there is a reason at times i wonder about this guy i met online Jk we were friends and i had a slight crush on him he was what i wanted , fit the basics but left out a few things whereas my bff/ex bf didnt fit the basics but was ok. sadly JK suddenly stopped talking to me - think it was my fault (i oppose cursing to the fullest and told him in a moderately bad way . he couldve ben offended- think he was , he said it was ok but his covos became brief afterward then i took a look at myself (metaphorically) and realised i do make the same mistakes and could be wrong for what i said. )i guess i was too proud to admitt my mistake and afraid he'd think i was stupid for saying something then taking it back. i visited his page to find that he'd deleted me and then decided that it was time to move on , still doesnt seem i did fully. i visited his page to see how he was , turns out he didnt have all the things up on is page that made me interested eg didnt post his poems up(were both poets).Instead his pik(of a f***k sign ) which he earlier told me the reason it was up and i missed what used to be in a way i believe the sweet boy i used to tlk to is still there but seems everything has changed he even has a gf now and im happy for him. what the hell does all of this mean? what should i do, im not like desperate or pinning after him still enjoying being single and dating but what should i do now?
Seems he lost interest in you and now has a new girlfriend.
Meanwhile you enjoy being single and dating.
This seems a perfect time to let things be and enjoy life.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com