what would you do?
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
Ok here is the situation. Lets call me Bill. I am dating this girl we will call Marisa. Marisa is married to a man we will call Shane. I am 22 she is 20 and he is 20. Shane is in the air force. Marisa has a baby by another man from years ago. The probelm is that Marisa and I got together for a one night stand which turned into a whole lot more than that. We are both having heavy feelings for eachother and we are starting to talk about the future. She has told me that she is not happy in her marrage and she wants a divorce. I have seen police reports that her husband is not a nice guy. He beets her up. The problem is that every now and then she brings up the topic "I dont know if I can leave Shane" Then she turns around the next day saying that she is happy with me and that she wants to be with me forever. That she is going to divorce Shane so we can be together legally. Its twisting my heart in knots. I just got out of a 7 year relationship that ended really bad. I was not looking for love again, but here I am it happend again I have fallen inlove with her and she tells me that she is inlove with me. I'm just not sure what I should do. What would you do?
Neither of you should jump into this.
She isn't really sure if she wants to divorce Shane and you just got out of a seven year relationship.
Why not step back and let things hang for a while? You need more time to decide what you really want and if she is going for a divorce, she needs to take steps in that direction.
What would I do? Turn around and run.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com