Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
i know it hasn't been a week, but i thought i should inform you of this before i forget.
you said to look out for any touching again?? well i did. and it happened. i guess he doesn't like me.
it was my best friend he touched - he gently shook her shoulders. they were also having a really flirty conversation.if they were th same age you'd think they hat the hots for eachother.
this makes the teacher sound like a freaky perv, doesn't it?
see, the thing is, when he talks to my friend, he jokes around, but not with me. this upsets me. what can i do to stop it upsetting me??
PLEASE answer my last question!! I'm desperate for an answer to that one!!!
Thanks for writing back right away.
This is getting complicated. It sounds like you are jealous that he is flirting with other girls but not you. Think about this... he probably would joke with you but you have given him hints that you are upset with him.
But forget that... you shouldn't be jealous or upset. You HAVE to go to a counselor in your school or a teacher you trust and tell them what is going on.
Tell them exactly what has happened and be completely HONEST with them. He may lose his job and you will feel awful if you were not honest.
Keep in mind also that he may be gay. That doesn't mean he should be touching people, but it makes him less pervy.
Do something about this now because it could just get worse if you continue to be upset by it.
Good luck! George
p.s. let me know what's going on.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com