I don't know what happenedVisitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
Well, I've been dating my girlfriend for four months now. We were pretty good friends for a few months before we started dating and when we started dating, I couldn't have been happier. Up until a couple weeks ago or so, I thought I was in love. She says she loves me and I say I love her because I honestly thought I did. But it seems like the past two weeks or so, I don't feel the same about her. It's like I love her, but more like a sister. It is so weird too because I used to think she was the most beautiful girl in the world, and now I am hardly attracted to her at all. I don't know if this is some sort of weird phase I am going through or if it is just over. I don't want to jump the gun and break up with her though in case it is just a phase because I thought I could see myself spending the rest of my life with her. There is also another problem here that I feel really guilty about. Over the past week or so I have developed a sort of crush on a fellow co-worker. I wouldn't cheat on my girlfriend but this girl makes me feel like my girlfriend used to and I just don't know what to do. I really dread having to break up with my girlfriend because I know how much it would hurt her and then there is this situation with this other girl that makes me feel bad because I know I shouldn't be having thoughts about being with another girl. I just don't know what to do. I guess what I'm asking though is if this could just be a phase I'm going through and i should give it some time or should I just end it now, and if so, what would be the best way to do this, because I do love this girl, but again, it seems more so like a sister, and I still want her in my life. Ahhhh, help please.
When in doubt about a woman, give it time unless you are in desperate straights.
You are making a go of it so just let it ride. It may be a phase and you may find yourself head over heels in love with her again.
Good luck! George
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