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hi hello...its me again...well..just wanna say thanks for the last 3 advices you gave me and it helped...well since i want it to be short and all in one go i'll ask all if it now...well my bestie and kuya are ignoring me now...well now i have plenty of questions and i need help...well my kuya and bestie are like what i've said they're ignoring me...its not that i want them back but...wil they restore the friendship?...or not? well you said its unlikley for love to return...well now i just wanna show them that i'm not affected anymore....and i don't know how to show it coz i bet in my actions they think that i'm so affected in losing them and they especially my bestie might think that i'm still after him...so how can i show that i got over him and the friendship? coz i don't want them to think that i regretted i lost them and i'm nothing without them and such...etc...
secondly...there's this guy...well he ended up having a love triangle with me last year and the one's involve are this guy and my bestie...and becoz of me...their friendship got broken...well lets call this new guy...HPM....well as said hpm and my bestie...ex bestie...liked me before...well i heard from my bestie that he already fell for another girl...and not anymore...i guess...that's what he said...he no longer likes the girl...well while i was in those painful moments...he really helped me...and he even told me that he'll be my secret guardian angel...don't worry i'm not expectiong that he still likes me...i liked him as a friend anyway...and somehow i wanna show him that i liked him as a friend and i'm not asking for he's love anymore...so how can i show it that without words?....
thirdly...plain curiosity...has HPM moved on?...do you think he still likes me?...like what i've said i'm not expecting...but just plain curiosity...or will he fell for me again?...is it unlikely that that would happen?....or there's an 80%+ chance?...
fourthly...hpm told me that we're bestfriends and such...do you think that i should believe that? do you think i could trust him? is he sincere?...well its just from tha past experience its kinda hard to believe for me anymore...
fifth...well the my 2 ex friends are still just passing by without a word...and somehow i got frustrated at the fact that i heard from my mom that bestie was happy like that as he ran to kuya as they went out into the school gates...and that was the time i gave them the letter and somehow its frustrating...and you even told me to be sweet...great...sweet to those who makes a complete fool out of you...wow...well i already forgave them...well now...like in the first...how can i show that i got over them and they mean nothing ti me anymore and that i'm so happy without them and how can i show to hpm that i just want him as a friend coz i think he still thinks that i think that he's still in to me....please help....

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1. Show them that you don't care by saying hi to them in a happy smiling voice.

2. It's tough without words because he might misinterpret your actions. Just be nice to him and eventually will get the message.

3. Sorry, I don't know enough about hpm to tell if he has moved on.

4. HPM should be given a chance to be bestfriends and see what happens.

5. The way to convince people that you don't like them sometimes involves ignoring them completely. Do this if other things fail. What you feel inside is what they will pick up on and believe.

So stop worrying about them and the problems will dissolve away.

Good luck! George

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One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

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