Is it really over?

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
I've been talking with this guy for over a year and we have been trying to make a relationship out of it. But it has been difficult because of the long distance. We are both busy people and whenever he wants to see me I can't or sometimes I make excuses not to. And finally one day he got fed up with everything and call it quits. I wasn't sure if it was for real b/c he always says he is "over it" but somehow pops back into the picture. But this time it felt real. He was really angry and said a lot of cruel things. Even though it went badly, I still care for him and want things to work out. Should I let go of this issue or take another chance on the matter? Advice
The last time you wrote I suggested that your relationship was not going to work unless you got to see each other more.

It appears that you are still not getting together enough and that's the problem.

My advice is to let go of this issue.

Good luck! George

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