What do i do now?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
So about a year ago i ment this girl in math class and we hit it off pretty good we messed around alot in class, talked alot, and lots o hugs. but this was all only in class. after that year we stopped talking i mean we did talk on the phone over hte summer but that was only a couple of times and each time was really breif. Once school started again we didnt talk at all we just ignored each other for awhile until she started to bother me a bit in hte halls but that was it. then after about 2 months of this i messaged her on myspace 2 weeks ago and started talking to her there and it was a week before thanksgiving break so i asked what she was doing over the break she said nothing so i suggested that we went for a ride she said instead lets go to scandia we agreeed on it then maybe like 10 min after she asked for a favor to print out her essay for her i said sure if she agreeed to a date i guess she though i was joking or i was coming on to strong but i never got a answer for that date instead she just asked bak if i was drunk or somehting. then came the following weekend where she called me twice once on sat night asking for a ride and if i was doing someitng on sunday i said no and no. sunday came she called me again aobut scandia i said that i didnt have gas to drive that far about 3 hours later she called me to go to the movies and i said that i was busy......and now she doesnt talk to me anymore..... did she like me at all and did i mess up?
Too bad you didn't get to go to Scandia... that would have been fun.
Yes, you did mess up. She obviously liked you and showed it by calling you so many times. You agreed to go to Scandia, so you should have made sure you had enough gas. When she called about the movie, you should have gone with her.
It's no wonder she isn't talking to you any more. You will have to learn to be more trustworthy when it comes to doing what you say you will. Or if you can't do the thing you promised, at least have some other in mind like going to the movies.
What you do now is start looking for another girl.
Good luck! George
-- from George
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