why part 2.....Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
hi its me again...thanks for the last advice...it really helped...somehow its the same advice that my friends kept telling me that's it my choice...well anyways...now somehow he said he still wants to be friends we just talked this morning...and somehow not in a organized way coz somehow...i wasn't myself this morning...well but the thing is the mainpont was settled...but...i just got a question and i need advice..coz it can't be helped...i can't approach anybody...well its just ok i guess we're friends again...but...is it good to hope on the love to return? or ummm..will i still have a chance? i mean will love still has a chance?...well somehow i'm moving on now...but its just...should i still hope for it?...somehow i'm still scared of him...i'm still afraid...well yeah somehow i'm secluding myself right now...well i'm trying..somehow he just won't back off...should i count on the words that he told me in the past? will he still stand up for it?.............waaaah!!! i'm scared confused...and i'm battling with emotions...should i just try and find a new life instead?should i just simply find a new friend? sand even a special someone?...coz i'm afraid that if ever we became close again i'm scared of falling for him again...and its unfair coz...it will only bring me to pain again...i don't wanna feel that pain again....T-T....waaah!! i'm scared of the pain....T-T....i really don't know...somehow i feel that all my friands are distant too...its really...uggghhh....somehow why would i even stick to him? does he still care? coz....i can't forget those words when he told me i don't love you anymore....he told me he doesn.t care if the closeness died he doesn't care if we're not friends anymore and such...waaahhh....somehow i just wanna be numb like what i was used to be...T-T...what should i do?! T-T....plus will i still be able to trust him?ahhhh!T-T
Since you are so confused and upset by this and so afraid of getting hurt again, my advice is to not be friends with him.
It is unlikely for love to return and even if it did you would be worried about it.
You don't want to feel that pain again, so let him go.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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