Need some Advise!
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
Ok heres the deal. Ive known this girl for about 3 months or so. We decided to be official at the beginning of october, and for the first 3 weeks everything was great. The last time we hung out we got back to her house, talked outside of like an hour, i met her dad, i kissed her good night and she said "goodnight booger". To me it felt like everyhting was good. Then i had to go away for the next weekend. We texted here and there while i was gone and everything still seemed ok. Then when i got back we hung out and we broke up. She said she didnt have time for a serious comitment right now, but she still still has feelings for me and thinks of me as more than friends and wants to date me just with out the comitment and maybe get back together when she has more time for it. I believe she ment this, she has ALOT on her plate right now between school and work. She says she feels bad because she doesnt even have that much time to even text me during the week. And another thing is i can only see her on the weekends because i go to live at school durring the week. But this kinda hit me like a train, i have no idea what happened durring that weekend that i was gone. But i respected what she wanted and have been just going with it, and we have been hanging out about every weekend since then. It was only like a month ago where it seemed like nothing could get in the way of us, feelings like that just cant drop off amount of time can they? And how can i increase her attraction in order for her to want to make it work out? Ill be getting an apartment closer to home for next semister so i am pretty much just waiting it out for that. Is there anything i can do? I know you cant make someone have feelings for someone, but i know she still does i just need to make them stronger so she will want things to happen again like she did before.
You hang out with her during the week end and you are a good friend of hers.
So, you have a great head start on getting her back again.
It's the holiday season so she has even more to worry about. Make sure you do whatever you can to help her out. Get her something nice for a present.
Not too long and you will be closer to her and you can help her even more.
Good luck! George
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-- from George
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