Concerned about up coming events

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
First off i would like to tell you thanks for taking time and answering my queston. Ok so basicly I have an internet boyfriend and we have been talking for about 8 months. I really do love him and he has told me several times that he feels the same. Whats going to happen is that in March 2008 Im going go on a plane with my mom and visit him for a week. He's in college but when he gets some time off then we are going to come and visit and stay in a hotel. Ok the first questions I have is we talk alot on the phone and we have phone sex I wanted to know what you think about that and do u think Im doing something wrong or shameful? Also my second question is when we visit he's going to take me 2 his dorm and we planned to do everything but sex but Im a little nervous because to be honest I never done that many sexual things before and now we are just suppose to go very far togther what do u think I should do about this? Do u think I will look like an idoit and do something incorrect ?
( PS if u were wondering i already made sure the guy is who he says he is by webcam and several other ways.) Advice
First, as long as you are both cool with it there is nothing wrong with phone sex. Very normal.

Second, ask your boyfriend to explain to you on the phone what you will be doing in his dorm. Let him know that you aren't very experienced and you will feel more comfortable knowing what's going to happen.

Finally, answering a question you sent in a separate email: don't worry about it. Not everyone responds the same way to stimulation. Not a big deal.

Good luck! George

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