how do i get her bac?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
ok me and my ex have been on and off for about 8 months,off two times.honestly they were basically ll my fault from getting jealous for her hanging out with other guys to just stupid lil things.this last time she broke up with me cause we were fighting,it was serious but did get out of hand cause we both have strong stuburan personalities.well after she broke up i wwent to stay with my friend for a couple of days,tht night she called everyone looking for me ,needingto talk to me really bad,so my friend tells me tht she wants to talk to me,tht night i went home i call her and she just needed to talk to sumone bout her family issues and us,and she told me why she broke up with me and tht was we fought too much bout stupid things,now im completely in love with her.later tht night she says i still like you alot,and she misses me.then she asked if i would like to see her the next which i told her i had plans but i could fitt her in an she insisted tht i stick to my plans but i told her tht i could hang out with her before my previous plans now,the next day we went to go to the movies and in the movies i kissed her ,and she kissed me back and i told her tht i couldve delt with her not loving me just yet cause tht could have changed and i would always love her no matter what.and she seemed a lil affected abot it but not to te point were she asked meto take her back.the next day she told me she would cnsider going back out with me in the future and tht gave me sum hope,well tuesday i call her in the evening and she didnt answer so i got online and she strted talking to me and one thing led to another and i asked our yo planning to talk to anyone and she was like idk and i was you do too your smarter than tht and she said im soo sorry but i already am,she was like i didnt wanna hurt you aymore,naturally i should forget about her but i cant i loveher with all my heart and i want her back!how do i do tht?plz help :(
The problem is you fight too much about stupid things.
Stop that fighting and you won't have so many problems.
Go to google (http://www.google.com) and search for FIGHTING FAIR
Read articles until you find the best one and print it out. Give it to her to read and say you would like to discuss it using the fight fair rules.
You both love each other, you just need to get past the fighting.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com