Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
hi thanks for the help . so i ended up sending this guy an email saying everythings confusing becasue i dont really no whats goin on with ur life i had the impression u had to make everything right b4 u brought a girl in it and untill you do im just gonna let it be.i sent that to him the first day of the weekend..ended up partying and another guy kissed me i was extremly drunk and it meant absolutly nothing i feel so bad tho because i told this guy he could trust me and he was the only guy and all of this stuff and then did that.then i ended up talking to him the next day and didnt tell him and he said i need to no ull b there not with another guy and i said it could be like that whenever ur ready to make it liek that and he was like i wanna be with u so bad i just dont want anything to come betweentus i want it to be perfect this time and i want u to be the happiest girl ever and i said i just need u to show me u care all the time not just liek not talkin for days and he said i talk to you as much as i can right now (and his phone is disconnected right now) i ended up talking to him and tellin him to try harderto have me at the satrt hes liek whats that suppose to mean u with another guy i said nobecause im not and there is no other guy i would want to be with and he said im all for u and he promises theres no other girlshe has feelings for and i said same so u have to prove that and he said i will ill be with you and i said i would love to be with him and that he would never give up on something he wanted so much and i said i hope you wont give up and he said never..we talked about why and everything .i dont no wether i should tell him about the guy or not.because if i do he will have major trust issues and it meant nothing and if we were legit together nothing liek that would ever happen im not the type to b unfaithful but like hes not tottally there for me so i thot y be dedicated .but there is a chance of him finding out and he would be upset and maybe not want to talk to me..what do u think do i tell him about it or just leave it or even wait to see if things go further and if they do tell him? i just want to do the right thing.. and like im a pretty easy going girl its okay with having it as it is right now as long as things change i have told him aslong as he is talking to me as much as he can im happy and there will be nothing with anyother guys im dedicated to him now but do you think i should be ?..what do u think about the situation ?
You were not his GF when you kissed that other guy.
So, tell him the truth and that you would never do it again if you two could be BF and GF.
If he can't handle the truth, then it will only be worse if he finds out for himself.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com