Does he like me?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
I know, I know...about a hundred people ask this daily, and the only way to know for sure is to ask him myself but I want to get others opinons before I go and make a fool out of myself.
Uhm, lets start with one of the most recent events. He was over at my house, visiting with my brother for abit as he was getting ready to move and wanted to spend sometime with his friends before he left. Anyways, he came down stairs and sat with me in the living room then a bit later my brother came down and they started to mess around (you know, hitting pushing just having fun). When they were done... my brother told him that I liked him (my brother whispered it in his ear but I still heard it) Anyways, he smiled for a second then punched my brother in the arm and said 'your gay man.'
Skipping forward to the next day, I asked my brother why his friend was wrestling around with him yesterday and he said 'to impress you' (which was the impression I was getting when they started) and I asked why he'd want to do that and then my brother said 'because he likes you and I think you like him too'.....but I don't know if I can take my brother seriously because he likes to tease me.
P.S. we've known each other for a long time & I know for a fact that he USED to like me. Anyways, does it sound like he's still interesed & how can I find out for sure without asking him directly?
Yes, it does sound like he is still interested.
One way to get a hint is to talk to your brother seriously without the joking around.
Another thing to do is to stop worrying about being a fool. We are all fools for love sometime or other. I suggest you ask if he wants to hang out with you. He is almost certain to say yes and then you will find out by the way he behaves.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com