Help ASAP plz
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
I am in love with my ex more than life its self.. we went through everything together i had an abortion and he was there for me the whole way through... it was rumors that i slept with his friend and we got through that then all the sudden we broke up because he said i got clingy.. i mean i dont think that i did but who every thinks they do... long story short im willing to do whatever it takes to get him back because he changed my life and i love him with my whole heart i tried talking to him but he says he doesnt love me anyone and his friends think he doesnt want to be my friend because he is scared he will get to close to me and actually admitt that he loves me.. i dont know what to do i really just want him back.. what should i do?
First thing is don't be clingy again.
Set out to live your own life without him. But that doesn't mean not being in touch with him. Call him once a week to see how each other are doing. Keep the call short (30 min max).
Make sure he knows that you are doing fine but also that you still care for him. This could raise his interest in you.
There is no easy answer to this, as you know, try this approach of being independent but available.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com