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Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
First off i was with this girl for about 2 years everything was great.She told me that she was so in love with me and she saw herself being with me forever.One day we were hanging out and she told me she felt like she was missing out on things being in a relationship and she broke up with me.A week later we tried to work things out and we got back toghter.A month went by and then we broke up again this time for good but we still talked and hooked up all the time and we did this for 2 years.Even when we talked she would tell me she missed me and loved me and that she needed to do this for herself she needed to test the market.About 3 weeks ago all the talking stoped and i found out she was dateing another man.I sent her a text telling her that i knew she was seeing him and how much it hurt me and she texted me back saying that she needs to get over me and she will always love me.I know in my heart i have to give her space if i ever want us to be toghter again. I guess my question is will we ever be toghter again? If she told me that she saw herself with me forever will she still have them feelings after a new relationship?Or should i just move on and leave her in the past and start looking foward to the future? Thanks for taking the time to read this and i hope to hear from you soon.
You are right that you need to give her space for things to work out.
Remain her friend as much as she will allow it. Maybe call her once a week
just to see how she is doing. Only time will tell if she is going to come back. I would not rule out the possibility.
I wish you luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com