How can i meet a guy from my community as i am far away from home

Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
I am 35 years old and i am having sleepless nights... all my friends are married and i am left all alone. I really would like to meet someone compatible with me. I am very well educated and would like to marry someone my own level ,I really want to get married as soon as possible because i am scared then i won't be able to have kids. I am from middle east and i am currently studying in europe. I've asked the student assistance office if they have students from my country but they were not of any help. I am really scared of being left alone in life.What should i do? Its hard for me to meet guys from my community here. I have seen a guy at university and i think he is from my country. I would like to start talking to him but i don't want it to look obvious that i am looking for someone. Also a friend of mine told me her husband has a friend/classmate from my country studying in the same university as me. what should i do. I am really depressed as time is going and i am getting older and feel i won't be able to achieve my goal of being married and be a mother. Please help. Advice
You aren't going to get anywhere lying awake at night.

You have to be outgoing and seek contacts wherever you can. Don't worry about being obvious. It already is obvious that a woman your age is interested in getting married and having children.

Perhaps you should start a social club for your nationality and go out to clubs or restaurants together. Or just meet at your place.

Would you be open to marriage with a European? If that is a possiblity then you will find it easier.

When will your schooling be finished? At that time you could return to your country and find someone.

But first things first... approach the guy you saw at the university and follow up on your friend's classmate.

Make friends with older people from your country, maybe they know eligible men or at least have contacts.

You are going to have to work hard to solve this problem!


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