close to her......how?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
theres a girl that i really really like but i havin trouble gttin close to her, hehe, theres time i just feel like givin up but i like her so much that i really cant. thng is i had a problem with her sister, who i dint know it was her sis at the time but, it made both of them think bad of me, like a player or w/e which im definite not and will never be. i guess thngs r bttr now bcauz i did get her and her sis 2 tlk 2 me like nothin happened. but still... i tried askin the girl out, but 2 hang out as friends and with other friends we both know, at first she said we should, then she said idk and now no, tht she has sumthng 2 do on tht day. idk if thts a sign tht she knws and is tryin 2 avoid me or wat? she & her sis hav trouble trustin boys bcauz most r players and stuf like tht, & i dont blaim them cauz there r, but still. i wanna show her im not like tht, tht i can truly love or like idk, her if given the 1 chance i need. im thinkin of askin her again but ina week or so tht way she wont b 2 suspicious or annoyed. i need advice in how 2 get her close and trust me, 2 show her tht real person i m and can b if given the chance, ways to get her 2 t8 notice in me
Get her to trust you.
Do this by always being honest and thoughtful. Tell her right out that you know there are a lot of players out there but that you are not one of them.
Ask her who she thinks will be elected next president in 2008, that will make her realize that you are up on the news. Ask her about her vacation plans.
Treat her with respect. You are right to wait a week or two before asking her again.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com