the pain is killing me
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
how can i move on when his family dont want me to give up in our relationship? until when will i suffer from this pain? it hurts me so deep! he betrayed me! i love him so much! his my world, his everyhting to me. i trust and shared all my secrets to him. for me, his not just my bf but also my bestfriend. we've been together for almost three years. then suddenly a rich girl came along and destruct our relationship.if only i can turn back time and change myself. i want him back eventhough he betrayed me. but i guess he dont want me back. my only mistake is im so jealous and sometimes saying bad words to him whenever we encountered third party issues. but i just cant help it coz i love him so much! i really love him. i cant sleep and eat well now. i always cry in my room. my friends gived up in sharing their advices to me coz i cant accept their advices. because i really want him back. i love him so much! how will i let go of him and move on when he is everything to me. please help? im all alone. feels like my world is shattered. and my heart stops beating. i want my bf back.
If it is meant to be, he will come back.
You don't have to move on if you don't want to. Try to make things better by remembering the good times you had. Don't dwell on the present problems. If it's not meant to be, you will slowly move on feeling pain for a while. It is like when someone dies and you grieve for them... it takes time and heartache.
Meanwhile, try not to say bad words to him. It will just make him feel terrible and make him want to avoid you. Make sure he knows you still love him and that you will wait for him.
None of this is easy. My best wishes are with you.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com