what is wrong with my love life?
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
i'm so sick of being rejected right now i'm ready to consider giving up on girls comepletely. how many people except me can say they've been shot down 15 times in a row!? all i've ever wanted is someone to love and who will love me in return. i'm honest about my feelings, i don't use any lame come-ons or inapropriate touching around girls,i'm a perfect gentleman according to most people, and i'm quite possibly one of the most romantic guys in school. i am virtually everyhting i thought a girl would want and yet i'm still single! what am i doing wrong? i always thought that a girl would want someone who was capable of truly being in love with them, but there's not a girl in my school that probably would even consider going out with me, let alone being my girlfriend. am i just asking to much? is it really too much for a 15 year old boy to want someone to fall in love with? or am i just destined to be lonely for the rest of my life!?
My guess is that you are moving too fast.
Get to know girls as friends before asking them out. If you do that, it is also possible they will give you hints about how to attract girls. Perhaps you are taking this too seriously and the girls are picking up on it.
Work on feeling better about yourself and they will feel better about you too. Make yourself stronger physically, emotionally, intellectually, spiritually, and socially. Each of these can be improved and eventually you will be quite attractive to women.
But for now conentrate on making friends with girls and see what develops.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com