how should i stop
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
i have been with him over an year and he broke up with me...he always called when i stopped for days and when i become normal again he used to withdraw he says he will never get back with me...finally he stopped talking to me and i called compulsively so many times that he thinks im mad...what should i do....will stop callling him make any changes....and when he calls me again how should i behave so that the same cycle does not repeat....
First, you are only hurting your chances when you call him so much.
Every time you call, he has to harden his heart to deal with the guilt he feels for leaving you. Now his heart is very hard.
You can soften his heart by giving him space and treating him with joy and happiness when you talk. This will take time, so be prepared to have patience.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com